【心理學101】兩歲的控制狂

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最近妹妹的兩歳兒子,很喜歡說「No」。(他們在英國生活的,所以小孩中英夾雜。)

叫他用叉吃意粉,他用了不夠十秒,忽然發脾氣大叫「No 叉!spoon!」

妹妹拿匙給他,讓他試下,當然是弄得一枱一地也是。我說:「匙𢳂唔到意粉架,要用叉轉轉轉咁先得架。」同時示範著。

他看見轉轉轉,又想試下,拿起叉,但還未叉下意粉,又大叫「No 叉!」然後把叉放回枱面,索性用手吃,吃得津津有味,向我露出得意的笑容。

然後我們坐車,姐姐看到太陽跟著車走,指著窗外跟我說:「Look 姨姨! The sun is following us! Look!」弟弟興致勃勃從car seat仲出頭來看著,看了一回,忽然發脾氣大叫「No Sun!No Sun!」。

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PhD | Research Psychologist | Psychometrician | Learning Support Assistant | IT Auditor/Consultant | ex-CISA/CISSP | Top Writer in Humor | Work in HK, UK, USA