很同意，但在中國人社會真的很難，你能用友善的態度對人是一回事，但對方會否真的能理解你的「對事不對人」是另一回事。（這正是其中一條我們很難解釋給有自閉症的學生的社交潛規則。） | by 思然 oce | Medium

四十歲的此時，我學著平靜勇敢地表達「我不同意」，之後仍能用不改的友善態度彼此相待。

有不同意見一定要吵架嗎？

Carol Chen 凱若

1 min readMar 18, 2018

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很同意，但在中國人社會真的很難，你能用友善的態度對人是一回事，但對方會否真的能理解你的「對事不對人」是另一回事。（這正是其中一條我們很難解釋給有自閉症的學生的社交潛規則。）

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